Sciences of Sex: Why Do Genitals Look Like That?

In this installment of Science of Sex, we take a look at why genitals look the way they do. Surprise: it’s for reproduction. Keep reading if you want to learn a bit more, however. Originally I was just going to focus on testicles, which are surprisingly more interesting than I had been lead to believe. […]

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When Good Guys Aren’t Good Enough

Today’s post is about guilt and fear, two vulnerable subjects that I sometimes experience in a specific way as a single person. I am sure we’re all familiar with the process of meeting a new person. If you’re open to new romantic or sexual partners like I am, you’ll ponder a person. Then, their availability, […]

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Science of Sex: Vaginismus

Welcome to this month’s edition of Science of Sex. This topic was suggested by one of my readers in my recent blog giveaway (thanks Courtney!). Vaginismus is a condition that you might never have heard of if you haven’t struggled with it (or known someone who has). And it seems like medical professionals don’t always […]

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Happy Down Below: Everything You Want to Know About the Penis and Other Bits

from I spent an awful lot of time learning — and teaching about — female genitalia. I talk about where it is, what it does, how it works, and how to interact with the various bits and bobbles. Like most aspects of human sexuality, a (cis) woman’s sexuality, is ignored. So I feel there’s a […]

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Finding Myself in Faraway Lands

I normally don’t post explicit about my “real” life on this blog, but my recent vacation includes some wonderful expressions of sexuality and personality that I wanted to reflect on. As someone who lives in a small midwestern city, there’s not a lot of sex positivity to be found. Our sex stores are sleazy. I […]

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